In an article on the marriage activity industry, a certain consultant in the marriage activity-related field looked at articles and videos describing the reality of marriage activity and just dismissed them as “urban legends on the Internet”.
What had he seen so far that made him say this was nothing but the height of folly? The word itself is the height of gibberish and can only be described as laughable.
That being said, from the standpoint of the marriage activity business, if there are no more people engaging in marriage activities, the business will be lost. That is probably why they are so desperate to get people to engage in marriage activity. It is only natural that they are desperate.
Nevertheless, I will say this clearly. I am writing this article based on the truth and truth based on the “real voices of unattractive men”, including my own experiences, so it is definitely not an “urban legend”. I wish a certain consultant mentioned above would take a good look at the reality of marriage life. Men, in particular, are no longer engaging in marriage activities, especially among the younger generation, due to the fact that there are none of the advantages of marriage. The biggest problem is that many women who wish to become full-time homemakers are unable to keep up with the changing times and are stuck thinking in the 20th century. How long do they think they can enjoy themselves and live only on the wealth of others? That’s why you can’t get married no matter how long you stay married. Furthermore, many foreign men also say they do not want to marry Japanese women for the aforementioned reasons.
Yet, the media foolishly pursue only men as the cause of the declining birthrate and do not ask about women. Unless we can get rid of this structure, it will be impossible to stop the declining birthrate. If we do not cut to the real causes without fear of backlash from those around us, measures to combat the declining birthrate will have no choice but to come to naught.
This is not a matter of “thinking” or “feeling” in a naïve and naïve way. It is not too much to assert, but rather too little to say. This is “the fact”, “the reality” and “the truth”. It’s not a matter of good or bad, it’s nothing more than a golden rule that can’t be described in any other way and has absolutely no room for doubt.