Recently, when asked about their ideal man, many women answer “cleanliness.”
The “sense of cleanliness” for men and that for women are, to tell the truth, very different.
Let me explain what that means.If you are a man, you would consider basic grooming to be a clean person. Certainly, not taking a bath, leaving your beard long, and wearing clothes for days on end is nothing but filthiness. No one would want to get close to a person like that. Even I understand this.
On the other hand, for women, “cleanliness” is considered to be someone who “a person of great wealth” in addition to a “likable face”, “likable body type”, “likable dress sense”, “cheerful expression” and “has a bath”. In other words, it’s a doublespeak: just rephrasing appearance ratings and looks, such as “good-looking”, “macho”, “tall” etc.
When men hear this, they will say, “That can’t be true” or “I don’t believe it.” But sadly, it is true. More to the point, there is also the very cruel reality that looks are very important and give children an extreme advantage in school life, higher education, employment and marriage. What’s more, what women call a “kind person” also means someone who listens to your selfishness.
To make matters worse, when Japanese women are asked which they prefer, a handsome man who has not bathed for three days or a creepy guy who bathes three times a day, they usually choose the former. The reason is that they can take a bath whenever they want.
This is still outrageous, but when a woman says, “You should be a little cleaner”, she does not mean advice, but rather, “It is disgusting.” Thus, for Japanese women, “clean” is a antonym for “disgusting.”
Of course, the men are furiously opposed.
“Then don’t use the word cleanliness, it’s a pain in the ass!”
“If you don’t understand the meaning of the word, you have better things to do than fall in love!?”
“If so, it is many women who are misunderstanding or making mistakes and causing misunderstandings. I highly doubt why it should be the men who are being misunderstood.”
It is a very genuine indignation, and it is nothing more than the gross overreaching hubris of Japanese women. If one would think that the word “cleanliness” would have made women more realistic, it has done the exact opposite. The fact that Japanese women’s character level is declining on a global scale is more obvious than the fact that they are shunned by men around the world.
This is not a matter of “thinking” or “feeling” in a naïve and naïve way. It is not too much to assert, but rather too little to say. This is “the fact”, “the reality” and “the truth”. It’s not a matter of good or bad, it’s nothing more than a golden rule that can’t be described in any other way and has absolutely no room for doubt.