Recently, there has been a change in marriage and love life in Japan.
Until now, there was a large gender gap in fees in the marriage activity industry, and men had to have high income and pay high fees to become members, while women could become members even if they were unemployed. As a result, only middle-aged and older women with no job or low income remained, and men, fed up with the declining level, began to leave marriage activity. Moreover, the number of men who choose to remain single for life continues to increase.
Furthermore, middle-aged and older women who remain in the market are seeking only young men with high incomes, which is totally out of proportion to their income. In addition, they are demanding to be full-time housewives when they are completely incapable of being housewives, which is laughable. From the other man’s point of view, there is no way he would want to be with such a woman. It is quite natural for a man to think that it is better to stay single if he finds only middle-aged and elderly women who are repulsive and vile when he engages in marriage activity.
Marriage agencies also began refusing to accept middle-aged and older women with no job or low income. They also began to ask women to bear the financial burden. This is a good trend. Women who have been turned down by these marriage agencies are next turning to marriage activity parties, which do not require any money. Since they do not have the formalities of a marriage counseling center, they can casually attend these parties. However, at marriage activity parties where all the women who are not taken seriously by men gather, men also lose interest in participating and withdraw. Therefore, there are more and more cases where marriage activity parties are cancelled due to lack of men. Even if the parties are cancelled, many self-centered women who insist that it is not their fault are appalling.
Many women who have had failed marriages claim that men are supposed to provide for women, but what, then, are the charms and special skills that turn men away? If so, what are the attractions and special skills that turn men on? Marriage is a mutual support and help between a man and a woman. It is foolish to think that you want to make things easier for yourself. From a man’s point of view, he cannot overlook the added burden, whether it is money or time. If they want to be healed, they should get a pet. With incomes not rising, men cannot stay in women’s wallets forever, nor can they afford to support their wives. Once a man’s financial sense has gone crazy, he can never get it back. Because of his brain damage, he cannot lower his standard of living once it has been raised.
You should be more realistic rather than relying on men’s money. Besides, men are not tools for women to mount each other. You should seriously think about the inconvenience to men who are forced to be in a relationship. Thanks to too many self-centered women, the number of men who don’t even fall in love, let alone get married, is increasing.
Women who have failed in their marriages and have passed the menopause are crying because they have no money, suffer from poverty, and regret having set their hopes too high. Men can only say, “It is already too late,” “I deserved it,” “karmic retribution,” and “natural consequences.”
This is not a matter of “thinking” or “feeling” in a naïve and naïve way. It is not too much to assert, but rather too little to say. This is “the fact”, “the reality” and “the truth”. It’s not a matter of good or bad, it’s nothing more than a golden rule that can’t be described in any other way and has absolutely no room for doubt.