Often, when a man gets busy with work and spends less time with his wife, he asks, “Which is more important, work or me?”
Are you saying that with the other man in mind? It is true that there are many men who spend their time doing things that are not their job and leave women alone. However, most men work for a living. The amount of free time they have is surprisingly limited. Even their physical condition is not always constant.
Nevertheless, you ask them to weigh their work and themselves against each other. It is hard to believe that you are considering the other person’s position. Besides, are you really so honorable that you are worth the work? If so, you are being very arrogant.
I further ask you, can you support a man who has chosen you to quit your job, become unemployed, and become a pimp? If you like the man very much, and you are financially capable of making ends meet, and you are willing to take care of him, then you may ask him that. I don’t know if such a woman exists in the world.
If you are unable to support a man who has become a pimp, and you are weighing yourself against your job, you should recognize and realize your own selfishness in denying and destroying your partner’s life. Isn’t it natural? Nowadays, there is almost no difference in salary between men and women, so if you are looking for a partner, you should do what you can to improve yourself. If you are weighing work and yourself against each other, you will eventually lose your partner. No one is troubled if such women disappear.
This is not a matter of “thinking” or “feeling” in a naïve and naïve way. It is not too much to assert, but rather too little to say. This is “the fact”, “the reality” and “the truth”. It’s not a matter of good or bad, it’s nothing more than a golden rule that can’t be described in any other way and has absolutely no room for doubt.