People who say they are popular and are snobby always say this to non-popular men.
“You have to work hard to find them!”
There are so many people like that, aren’t there? There are so many of them that I can’t help it.
If you’re wondering what kind of effort it takes to be popular, you’ll be surprised to learn that you can’t rely on it 100 percent of the time. If you have any doubts, ask those who tell you to make an effort to find someone, “Then what kind of effort did you make?”
Well, all they can say is a bunch of random stuff with very little substance. It becomes ridiculous to listen to them, and you will start to yawn because you are so tired of hearing them. I’m really getting tired of it.
So why do they say such things? There is a natural reason for this.
After all, anyone who casually says that you have to work hard to find something is, without exception, trampling down the efforts of others, kicking them to the ground and reducing them to dust. It’s no exaggeration to say that it’s quite natural that you can’t get any real answers at all.
I don’t want you to misunderstand that I am not talking about those who are really making an effort. Because those who are really making an effort would never say or think the aforementioned things lightly, or even before, even if they could speak or think them.
This is not a matter of “thinking” or “feeling” in a naïve and naïve way. It is not too much to assert, but rather too little to say. This is “the fact”, “the reality” and “the truth”. It’s not a matter of good or bad, it’s nothing more than a golden rule that can’t be described in any other way and has absolutely no room for doubt.